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Grief Activity Ideas

  • Read stories that has death or grief as a theme. For book ideas, please see the bibliography in this packet. After reading a book discuss it. Point out lessons in the book. Create activities based on these lessons.


  • Memory box: Find a box that can be decorated by the child. Encourage the child to decorate the box in ways that remind them of the person who died. Provide stickers, markers, and other art supplies. Children can place items that remind them of the person who died inside.


  • Big Energy Activities: Punching bag, play dough, finger paint, and other physical activities. Children often express their feelings through anger, yelling, hitting, and crying for not apparent reason. It is important for them to learn appropriate ways to express these big feelings.


  • Messages: As a family, write or draw messages that you would like the person who died to get. Once they are finished, tie a string though the paper and attach it to a tree. Observe that the wind can take the messages where they need to go.


  • Inside/outside feelings: Discuss how sometimes the way we feel is very different than the way we act. Using a paper plate, draw the way you feel on the inside on one side and the way you act on the other side. Discuss differences and similarities.

Text provided by:

Caring Connections
A Hope and Comfort in Grief Program
University of Utah Health Sciences Center

Caring Connections is sponsored in part by
The Ben B. and Iris M. Margolis Foundation.

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