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Developmental Concepts of Death: Children 8 to 12 years of age

  • Increased curiosity about the biology of death.


  • Difficulty with peer interactions. The death of a loved one makes them feel different at a time when they want to be the same as everyone else. It is important to find ways to build their self-esteem.


  • Shock, denial, anxiety and anger are all very common.


  • May be increasingly aggressive. More acting out than usual (including being argumentative and combative) is normal. Avoid power struggles.


  • Regressive behavior may be seen as increased clinging to adults.


  • May experience big emotional releases. These can be scary for children at this age. Be there to accept, support and listen.


  • May appear to be totally unaffected by the death.

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